Relationships
I’m Becca Scott, a relationship coach, author and speaker with more than 25 years’ experience supporting people with their physical and emotional wellbeing.
I have completed accredited training in divorce and breakup coaching, alongside further professional development in difficult relationships, domestic abuse, coercive control and post-separation abuse.
My work is also informed by lived experience.
I know what it is like to question yourself, walk on eggshells, try harder to keep the peace and wonder whether you are simply too sensitive or expecting too much. I also understand how early conditioning and the roles we learn can influence our communication, boundaries and the relationships we accept as adults.
Today, I support women at different stages of relationship difficulty: from understanding what is happening and improving communication, to deciding Should I Stay or Should I Go?, through to separation, divorce and navigating difficult or abusive post-separation dynamics.
I don’t encourage divorce and I won’t tell you whether to stay or leave.
Instead, I help you understand the dynamics of your relationship, recognise patterns, explore your conditioning, communicate more clearly, identify your needs and boundaries and understand what healthy relationships actually look like.
My BLOOM Framework® and Should I Stay or Should I Go? Framework provide structure for this work, helping you move away from confusion and towards greater clarity, confidence and self-trust.
I am also the author of the Amazon #1 bestselling Bloom Through Life®: How to Thrive Through Difficult Relationships and Create Lasting Change in Your Health.
My role isn’t to make the decision for you. It is to help you understand what is happening clearly enough to make your own.
Are you thinking of separating? Or you're in the throes of a split that is not how you wanted it to be? You thought you could do it amicably but you find yourself in the middle of a total sh*tshow?
Are you still experiencing conflict post separation that you don't know how to deal with?
Or are you thinking of blending families but have no idea how to start or approach that with the children and you?
We will work together to find a path through whatever challenging time you are experiencing to build clarity, and create a path to a brighter future.